Category: Blog
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The Letter You Never Got to Send Back
Dear M, Thank you for your message. It was beautiful. It was warm. It was full of love. But it was also the softest version of a goodbye I’ve ever received. I see now what I didn’t want to see then:You were already gone. And you wrapped your exit in gratitude, hoping I wouldn’t notice.…
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What I learned at 30
You can’t focus on too many things, you’ll just have a load of half-baked things and if you did this throughout your whole 20’s, you’ll be very frustrated with yourself by 30. If you haven’t experienced death from a close one yet, consider yourself lucky. Experience toxic human behaviour as much and as soon as…
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Letter to Myself — When the Pain Feels Like Truth
I sat in silence before Paul’s grave, candles flickering against the red earth. No words. Just the weight of everything we never got to finish. He walked beside me when no one else did—through doubt, through chaos, through fire. This isn’t just grief. It’s memory. It’s love that refuses to die.
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Touching the Eternal: Mystical and Scientific Perspectives
After losing someone close, the question of what we really are starts to haunt you. Are we just biological machines—neurons firing, cells decaying, nothing more? Or is there something deeper at play—something beyond the physical, something eternal? Grief has a way of cracking open the surface-level answers. It forces you to ask: when life is…
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Are Some People Truly Soulless?
Have you ever met someone who just feels… hollow? Not cruel, not evil—just empty. They function, they do what’s expected, they may even be kind—but there’s no warmth, no deep emotional presence, no sense of soul. Is this feeling subjective, or are there truly people who lack something essential? Let’s explore whether soullessness is a…
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When Everything Falls Apart, Who’s Still There?
When my relationship ended, I found myself in a dark place—lost, emotionally wrecked, and alone. I had prioritized my girlfriend over my friendships, and when she was gone, I had no one left to turn to. But Paul was there. He didn’t hold my absence against me. He reached out, checked in, and asked me…
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Essence Over Time: The Friendships That Endure
People say that time changes everything. That friendships fade, that people outgrow each other, that life moves us in different directions. But I don’t think that’s always true. Some connections don’t weaken with time. Some people don’t become strangers just because years pass. I’ve realized that the friendships that last aren’t the ones built on…
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Cursor Claude 3.7 Sonnet One-File Focus Issue: Why It Happens and How to Fix It
If you’ve been using Cursor Claude 3.7 Sonnet in the Cursor IDE composer to develop your application, you might have noticed an odd pattern: at the beginning, it acts like an architect, understanding the whole system, but as your app grows, it starts focusing on just one file—often the one you’re actively editing—while ignoring the…
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Cursor: The AI-Powered Coding Assistant That Changed How I Work (But Not Without Its Flaws)
Cursor AI with Claude Sonnet has been a game changer in my development workflow. Tasks that once took weeks now take hours, allowing me to focus on high-level decisions instead of debugging syntax errors. But it’s not perfect—once a project grows past 400MB, Cursor slows down, making every click a waiting game. It also tends…
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The Tragic Brilliance and Redemption of Mark: A Life Devoted to Art and Reinvention
Mark spent 15 years chasing artistic prestige, only to find himself struggling financially and emotionally. His pivot to plastering in Whitstable brought him stability, balance, and a newfound appreciation for life. His story serves as a powerful lesson on passion, reinvention, and the importance of adaptability in the pursuit of fulfillment.